What is a Non-Molestation Order?

A non-molestation order is a type of legal protection designed to safeguard individuals from harassment, threats, or harm by someone they are closely connected to, such as a current or former partner, spouse, or family member. It is most commonly used in situations involving domestic abuse, where a person is at risk of violence, intimidation, or ongoing distress caused by someone they live with or have a personal relationship with.

The main purpose of a non-molestation order is to prevent further abuse or harassment. When granted by the court, this order makes it a criminal offence for the abuser (also known as the respondent) to continue their harmful behaviour. This can include not just physical violence, but also threats, stalking, unwanted communication, or any actions that cause fear or distress. The order may also require the abuser to stay away from the victim’s home, workplace, or children’s school, helping to protect the victim’s safety and peace of mind.

Non-molestation orders are one of several types of protective orders and injunctions available under UK law. These legal tools are designed to offer immediate and practical protection for those at risk. You can find more information about how these orders work and the different types available by visiting the Injunctions resource.

The legal basis for non-molestation orders is set out in the Family Law Act 1996, Section 42. This legislation gives courts the power to make orders to secure the health, safety, and well-being of people experiencing abuse. The law is flexible, allowing the court to tailor the order to the specific circumstances of each case, whether that means stopping particular acts or preventing contact altogether.

If you are experiencing harassment or abuse from a partner or family member, a non-molestation order can be a crucial step towards protecting yourself and regaining control. It is important to understand your rights and the legal options available – exploring the details of protective orders and domestic abuse can help you make informed decisions about your safety and next steps.

Who Can Apply for a Non-Molestation Order?

Anyone who is experiencing abuse, harassment, or threats from a family member or partner can apply for a non-molestation order. These orders are designed to protect individuals from domestic abuse and are available under specific legal rules set out in the Family Law Act 1996, Section 42.

Who Qualifies as a Family Member or Partner?

The law recognises a broad range of relationships for eligibility. You can apply for a non-molestation order if the person you need protection from is:

  • Your current or former spouse or civil partner
  • Someone you are currently living with, or have lived with as a couple (including same-sex couples)
  • A fiancé(e) or someone you were engaged to
  • A close family member, such as a parent, child, sibling, aunt, uncle, or grandparent
  • The other parent of your child, or someone with whom you share parental responsibility

If you are unsure whether your relationship qualifies, it may help to review the full legal definitions provided in the Family Law Act 1996, Section 42, which explains exactly who is covered.

Applying on Behalf of Children or Vulnerable Adults

In some situations, you may need to apply for a non-molestation order to protect someone else, such as your child or a vulnerable adult. The court can grant orders to safeguard children from harm, and you can find more about child protection in abuse cases to understand your rights and options.

If you are worried about the safety of a child or a person who cannot apply for themselves due to age or vulnerability, you can request the order on their behalf. The court will always prioritise the safety and welfare of children and vulnerable adults in these cases.

Safety and Urgency

If you are in immediate danger, it is important to act quickly. The courts can make emergency non-molestation orders without notifying the other person (known as ‘without notice’ or ex-parte orders) if there is a risk of harm. This ensures you and your loved ones are protected as soon as possible.

Remember, the process is designed to be accessible and supportive, even in urgent situations. If you need further details about your eligibility or how to apply, you can refer to the Family Law Act 1996, Section 42 for comprehensive legal guidance.

Understanding who can apply for a non-molestation order is the first step towards ensuring your safety and the safety of those you care about. If you believe you or someone you know needs protection, consider taking action as soon as possible.

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What Does a Non-Molestation Order Do?

A non-molestation order is a type of court order designed to protect individuals and their families from domestic abuse. When granted, it places specific legal restrictions on the person named in the order (the respondent), aiming to prevent further harm or distress.

What restrictions does a non-molestation order impose?

A non-molestation order can include a wide range of restrictions, tailored to the circumstances of each case. Typically, the order will prohibit the abuser from:

  • Using or threatening physical violence against you or your children
  • Harassing, intimidating, or pestering you in any way
  • Communicating with you, whether by phone, text, email, social media, or in person
  • Approaching your home, workplace, or your children’s school
  • Encouraging anyone else to harass or intimidate you on their behalf

The court can set specific terms based on your situation to make sure you and your family feel safe.

Examples of behaviours the order prevents

A non-molestation order is designed to stop a range of abusive behaviours, including:

  • Physical violence or threats of violence
  • Verbal abuse, such as shouting or making threats
  • Stalking or following you
  • Sending unwanted messages, letters, or gifts
  • Turning up uninvited at your home or workplace
  • Damaging your property
  • Using children to pass on messages or exert pressure

These measures are intended to prevent any form of harassment, intimidation, or contact that could cause you harm or distress. For a clear definition and further context, see the Non-Molestation Order for Domestic Violence NCDV.

What happens if the order is breached?

Breaching a non-molestation order is a criminal offence under section 42A of the Family Law Act 1996. If the respondent ignores the order’s restrictions, you should contact the police immediately. The police have the power to arrest the person without a warrant, and the offender could face criminal prosecution. Penalties can include a fine, a prison sentence of up to five years, or both, depending on the seriousness of the breach.

How does the order help protect victims and their families?

A non-molestation order provides legal protection and peace of mind. Knowing that the abuser is legally barred from contacting or approaching you can help you regain a sense of safety and control. The order also protects any children involved, as it can extend to cover them as well. If you are worried about your safety or that of your family, a non-molestation order can be a crucial step in creating a safer environment and preventing further abuse.

If you are considering applying for a non-molestation order or want to understand more about your rights, you can find helpful guidance and support through the Non-Molestation Order for Domestic Violence NCDV.

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How to Apply for a Non-Molestation Order

How to Apply for a Non-Molestation Order

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, a non-molestation order can provide vital protection for you and your children. Applying for this order involves several steps through the Family Court, and it’s important to understand the process to ensure your safety and legal rights are protected.

Step-by-Step Application Process

  • Gather the Required Information
    Before you begin your application, collect any evidence of abuse. This might include messages, emails, photographs, or witness statements. Having clear details about what has happened will help your case.
  • Complete the Application Forms
    The main form you need is Form FL401, which is used to apply for a non-molestation order. You will also need to prepare a supporting statement explaining why you need protection. These forms are available from your local Family Court or can be downloaded online. Guidance on how to fill them in and what information to include is available through the Family Court.
  • Submit Your Application
    Once your forms are complete, you can submit them to the Family Court. This can often be done in person, by post, or sometimes online. If you are in immediate danger, let the court staff know so your application can be prioritised.
  • Applying Without the Abuser Knowing (Ex Parte Orders)
    In urgent situations, you can ask the court to consider your application without notifying the person you are seeking protection from. This is known as an ex parte order. The court will only grant this kind of order if they believe there is a real risk of harm or if telling the other person in advance might put you in further danger. For more on how the court handles these urgent applications, see the guidance on ex parte orders.
  • Court Hearing
    After your application is submitted, the court will usually set a date for a hearing. If you’ve applied for an ex parte order, the court may grant temporary protection until a full hearing can take place. At the hearing, both you and the person you’re seeking protection from will have the chance to present your cases. The judge will then decide whether to grant a non-molestation order and for how long it should last.

Getting Legal Help and Support

While you can apply for a non-molestation order by yourself, many people find it helpful to get legal advice or support. Legal aid may be available if you cannot afford a solicitor. Charities and organisations such as Citizens Advice can also guide you through the process and help you understand your rights. The Family Court offers more information on getting help and what to expect when applying.

For a more detailed look at the steps involved, including how to prepare your evidence and what happens after the order is granted, see our guide on applying for an abuse injunction.

Remember, you do not have to face this process alone. Reaching out for support can make a significant difference in ensuring your safety and wellbeing.

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Changing or Ending a Non-Molestation Order

Changing or ending a non-molestation order is possible in certain circumstances, but it is important to understand when and how this can be done. A non-molestation order is designed to protect individuals from domestic abuse, and any changes to the order must be carefully considered to ensure ongoing safety and legal compliance.

When Can a Non-Molestation Order Be Changed or Ended?

A non-molestation order can be varied (changed) or discharged (ended) at any time after it has been made. Either the person protected by the order (the applicant) or the person it is made against (the respondent) can apply to the court to make changes. Common reasons for wanting to change or end an order include:

  • A change in circumstances, such as the parties wishing to resume contact safely.
  • The order is no longer needed because the risk of harm has reduced.
  • The original terms are too restrictive or not specific enough.
  • Practical difficulties in following the order as it stands.

The Legal Process for Varying or Ending an Order

To make changes to a non-molestation order, you must apply to the court that issued the order. The process involves:

  • Filing an Application: You need to submit a formal request to the court explaining why you want the order changed or ended. This includes providing evidence or information about your current situation.
  • Court Hearing: The court will usually hold a hearing where both parties can present their views. The judge will consider whether the order is still necessary to protect the applicant or any children involved.
  • Decision: The court may decide to keep the order as it is, change its terms, or bring it to an end. The judge’s decision will always focus on the safety and well-being of those protected by the order, as set out in the Family Law Act 1996, Section 42.

For a step-by-step guide on the process, including the forms and evidence you may need, see our page on changing or ending a non-molestation order.

Why Legal Advice Is Important

Before applying to change or end a non-molestation order, it is strongly recommended to seek legal advice. The process can be complex, and the court’s decision will have significant consequences for everyone involved. A legal adviser can help you understand your options, prepare your application, and represent your interests in court.

If children are involved, the court may also consider their safety and welfare. For more information on protective orders for children and the role of the Court of Protection, visit Court of Protection.

Remember, non-molestation orders are there to protect people from harm. Any changes should be made with careful thought and professional guidance to ensure everyone’s safety and legal rights are respected.

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Other Related Protective Orders

When seeking protection from domestic abuse, it’s important to understand that there are several types of legal orders available – each designed to address different situations. In addition to non-molestation orders, which prevent someone from harassing, threatening, or abusing you, the courts can also grant occupation orders.

What is an Occupation Order?

An occupation order is a type of court order that determines who can live in the family home or enter the surrounding area. This can be particularly helpful if you need to exclude someone from your home to ensure your safety or the safety of your children. Occupation orders are often used in cases where the person causing harm lives at the same address as the person seeking protection.

How Do Occupation Orders Differ from Non-Molestation Orders?

While a non-molestation order focuses on preventing harassment, threats, or abuse, an occupation order deals specifically with living arrangements. You can apply for both orders at the same time if you need both protection from abuse and control over who stays in the home. For example, if you are experiencing domestic abuse and need your abuser to leave the property, an occupation order can provide this additional layer of security.

Both types of orders are available under the Family Law Act 1996, which gives the courts the power to protect individuals and children from harm. The court can also attach a ‘power of arrest’ to an occupation order, making it a criminal offence to breach its terms.

When Might Orders Be Used Together?

It’s common for people experiencing domestic abuse to seek both a non-molestation order and an occupation order. For example, if you are being threatened or harassed by someone you live with, a non-molestation order can stop the behaviour, while an occupation order can require them to move out of the home. The court will consider your circumstances and the level of risk when deciding whether to grant one or both orders.

Considering All Your Options

Everyone’s situation is different, so it’s important to explore all possible protective measures. There are various protective orders and injunctions available, depending on your needs and relationship to the person you want protection from. Understanding your rights under the Family Law Act 1996 and the range of legal remedies can help you make informed decisions about your safety and wellbeing.

If you are unsure which order is right for you, it may help to read more about the Family Law Act 1996 and seek professional advice. Taking action early can be vital in ensuring your protection and peace of mind.

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Support and Assistance for Victims

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, it is important to remember that you are not alone and support is available. While a non-molestation order offers crucial legal protection, there are also a range of services and resources designed to help you stay safe and rebuild your life.

Accessing Support Services

Specialist organisations and charities provide practical and emotional support for victims of domestic abuse. These services can help you with safety planning, finding emergency accommodation, and accessing counselling or advocacy. For a comprehensive list of organisations and advice on staying safe, visit our page on domestic abuse support services.

If you need immediate help, you can contact the police on 999 in an emergency. Many local authorities and national charities also operate helplines and refuges, where you can find confidential advice and a safe place to stay.

Financial and Housing Assistance

Leaving an abusive situation often comes with financial and housing challenges. You may be worried about where you will live, how to access benefits, or how to support your children. There are specific forms of assistance available, including help with finding emergency accommodation, applying for benefits, and accessing grants or loans. Learn more about financial and housing assistance for abuse victims to understand your options and rights.

Local councils can provide support with housing applications, and certain benefits may be available to help you cover essential costs. In some cases, legal aid may also be available to help with the costs of applying for a non-molestation order or other protective measures.

Legal Rights and Guidance

The law offers a range of protections for victims of domestic abuse. The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 strengthened these protections, introducing new measures such as the Domestic Abuse Protection Order (DAPO) and Domestic Abuse Protection Notice (DAPN). These aim to provide more consistent and effective safeguards for those at risk.

For detailed information on who can apply for a non-molestation order, the application process, and what to expect at court, refer to HM Government’s Guidance on Domestic Abuse. This official resource covers eligibility, how to serve documents, and what happens during hearings.

Taking the Next Step

Reaching out for help can feel daunting, but support is available every step of the way. Alongside legal protection, connecting with specialist services can provide you with the advice, resources, and reassurance you need. Whether you are seeking immediate safety, planning for the future, or looking for emotional support, there are people ready to help you.

If you are unsure where to start, consider speaking to a support worker or legal adviser who can guide you through your options and help you access the right services for your situation.


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